"Most men have not received love from their mothers, so they unconsciously seek that love, care, and attachment through women.
They often use sex as a way to soothe their inner wounds, to numb the pain of emotional abandonment. When they close relationships quickly, or attach intensely, it’s not always love—it’s a cry for mothering.
These men do not yet know what it means to be a man. They carry a wounded boy inside their bodies, aching for nurturing, safety, and belonging.
True masculine power is not in taking—it is in giving. A man receives the deepest orgasm not by seeking pleasure, but by offering it. He awakens when he gives, when he pours his desire into devotion, when he arrives not to conquer her, but to honor her.
When a man truly worships the feminine, he does not reduce her to a body—he sees her as the divine embodiment of creation itself. He knows her touch heals, her breath awakens, and her presence calls him home to himself.
But this sacred act of giving is not possible when he is burdened by unresolved trauma. A wounded man will repeat patterns of control, avoidance, or neediness—because the boy inside him is still trying to feel safe.
Only when he chooses to heal, to face his wounds without blaming, numbing, or escaping, can he step into the sacred masculine. Only then can he give a woman the divine experience of being truly seen, met, and held.
Healing is not about fixing himself to impress a woman. Healing is about remembering who he truly is: the man who can hold space for storms, who knows his presence is medicine, and whose love can build temples in her soul.
When a man meets a woman through his healed heart, not his wounded need, he doesn’t just touch her body—he touches her soul. He doesn’t just make love—he creates a sanctuary.
A healed man doesn’t run away when a woman expresses her pain. He listens. He stays. He breathes. He knows love is not about fixing her—it’s about feeling with her.
Such a man becomes rare, sacred. Not because he is perfect, but because he has chosen the path of courage: the path of healing, feeling, and giving from overflow—not from emptiness.
If more men chose to heal, the world would see fewer broken homes, fewer confused relationships, and more sacred unions—where love is not dependency, but divinity in motion.
And if a woman finds such a man, she must know—he is not soft, he is strong in a way the world rarely understands. Because it takes great strength to hold his own pain, meet hers, and still love with presence.
This is the art of conscious masculinity. Not to dominate, but to devote. Not to chase validation, but to give from wholeness. Not to escape pain, but to transmute it into love.
If you feel the call to work on your masculine…
To heal the wounded boy within…
To become the man who leads with presence, not pain.
We don’t rush.
We hold hands through the process.
You will be seen, felt, and supported—deeply."~
~Abhikesh
